On Friday, I took the girls to my sister's house to play with all of their cousins, who were on Spring break. Callie was close to falling asleep on the drive over so she was very cranky once we got there. Madison wanted to nurse and Callie just wanted to be held. For the next hour I had Callie and Madison both wanting to be held, neither wanting to play or be held by anyone else. This has been happening a LOT lately. Madison is teething and mostly just wants me so she is extra clingy and Callie gets jealous and wants me to hold her. When I hold them both they usually start fighting, not wanting me to hold the other child. It makes going places very difficult and frustrating. I keep reminding myself that someday I'll miss them being so clingy.
We also went to the park with everyone for a picnic and play time. Callie was really excited about that and she finally left my side to go play. Madison even let Andrea hold her for a while. When we went back to Melissa's house all of the little ones, except for Callie, took a nap while the big kids played outside. Callie was in heaven playing alone with her cousins' play kitchen and babies.
My oldest niece, Abby, is 13 now. I can't believe it's been that long since that little 1.5-pound baby fought for her life in the NICU. Childhood is so short. I'm so glad that we live so close to my sisters. When I lived in Utah I was so sad to be too far away to go to things like baptisms and baby blessings, but now I'm finally close enough to be a part of those special occasions in my nieces' and nephew's lives and it makes me so excited! It always meant so much to me when my aunts and uncles were a part of those important points in my life and I really want to do that for my own nieces and nephew.
It's so amazing that we all live so close to each other. I wish that we took advantage of it more often. Here we all are at this time in our lives with young kids and living within minutes from each other, yet it's so easy to just get caught up in our own lives and not take the time to get together as often as we could. Who knows how long it will last or if we will all ever even live in the same state again. Anyways, I'm going to try to be better about reaching out to them and getting together with them more frequently, because this time is precious and, in the words of my mom, will soon only be a memory.
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